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Truth of the Matter

One i cant even believe im taking time out of my life to actually post this but.
I have a bone to pick with this 'scene  queen'  movement.
To be quite frank I dont believe in it

Correct me if im wrong but they look like a bunch of social climbers to me
(for those of you whom don't know what social climbers are, they are people
who meet people only to use them to gain their own personal fame or beneifit)

I'm not saying that pink hair is ugly or that this girls (including Jeffree) are ugly
by looks definition bc they arent. Hanna, and Jeffree are beautiful people to look at
(minus jac in all honestly, gosh that girl is weird looking)

Its this whole social climbing fake bullshit i dont agree with. and for what?? self
fame? I can tell you right now from personaly experience that fame its as glamrous
as you think it would be.

Think of when you have your friend(s) over, or go to the mall with and just
imagine your mom making your sibling hang out with you guys, following
around listening to your convos. You feel like you cant say anything bc they
will tattle tale. Well that, that is fame, fun hum???

But i've seen these sceen queens walk over people and their selfs just to get to this
fame. Doing whatever they can do do get it. Breaking hearts, burning friendships.
Its all so fake, yet some people sit here and admire it.

Im not talking about the countless vain photoshots that they do, bc lets face it we're
all a lil vain. Most of their photos are a good piece of art work, but true artist dont
want recongintion. And to be honest Jeffree Star is good at airbrush makeup.

But as far as idolizing these people, i think it needs to stop. I was on Pereze Hilton
the other day and i saw a picture of Hannah Montana and Jeffree... which is so
funny bc isnt Hanna now dating her brother... and when Hanna got together with
him didnt Jeffree and Hanna make up their differences... its sick reallly

we need REAL PEOPLE, people that will encourage and support your dreams.
tell you never to stop and live life like tomorrow isn't coming.



With all this said, realise its a bash against fake people, no one in direct. and know
that i may not know you but i do love you, and if you ever need an ear you have me
for anything.





iloveyou.
jilian dee

Posted on 02/21/2008 9:39 AM Visits: 52
rockmusicismylife: 02/21/2008 2:37 PM
wow i agree with 99% of this.
i do love jeffree star though, only because it seems to me that she can just be herself, i really admire that.
but everything else i agree with! i was thinking about dying my hair hot pink a while ago and was like "i dont want to be like everybody else" so i chose a different color.
but i loved this
jiliandee: 02/21/2008 7:09 PM
wow i agree with 99% of this.
i do love jeffree star though, only because it seems to me that she can just be herself, i really admire that.
but everything else i agree with! i was thinking about dying my hair hot pink a while ago and was like "i dont want to be like everybody else" so i chose a different color.
but i loved this
thank you so much! its not a bash on people, just the fake thing they do and present themselves as
dakota53194: 02/29/2008 6:19 PM
i also get what your trying to say. Its not specifically against a person but just what people have done and most likely will continue to do. This scene queen and king's are for many people role models. They make them aspire to be something. I just wish people could see the uniqueness in themselves and not feel like they have to aspire to be anyone but in fact themselves! Trends and even sadly people go out as quickly as they come in. I wouldn't think to much about the social climbers there fad will eventually decrease. Nothing lasts forever. =) -
tornuplovenotes: 03/04/2008 11:11 AM
Amen. Like everywhere, Buzznet has a top layer of fakes and an underground scene of real people. You've just gotta look hard enough.
I try to feature and link to artists and people with real talent (check out my group, "Buzznet's REAL Talent") as much as I can, but unfortunately, this place needs Scene Queens to function...they bring the money in...
Ikky-ikky-arriba!: 03/04/2008 2:11 PM
pretty much the scene is a bunch of pretty girls too full of themselves and lacking in creativity. ill be glad when it implodes as these silly trends tend to do.
secretdreamer89: 04/04/2008 11:33 PM
This is just the thing I needed to read after being back stabbed by a so called friend... I love how people will just use and abuse people just to get what they want (sarcasm). I admire Jeffree Star and all the rest because to look that flawless takes work. Hard work. Plus, I love all the clothes they wear and so on, but I don't idolize them for the simple fact that when the day is over, I don't know them that well. I'm a good ole "My Mom is my hero" person, becuase at least I know my mom won't step on my feelings and then kick me under a carpet just to get what she wants. Fake people deserve real pain, and they get it, thanks to karma. It's just a fad. I love the colorful hair and amazingly colorful clothes and accessories, but Scene is just a fad and fads tend to die. It's called fashion survival of the fittest. Things come into style, the horrid things die off, and a new trend starts.
jiliandee: 04/04/2008 11:54 PM
agreed! thank you all for understanding. I too have simple values. And after i wrote this a friend of mine has now become bff with hanna... its sad really. she (my friend) is an amazing girl. one night she got stranded by her so called 'friends' at a Rehab (the lil club event i use to go to). I dont drink so me being sober took her home with me, gave her clothes food. she lost her phone and they person that found it wanted to give it back, she had to work so i went and picked it up for her and brought it to her work. im not trying to glorify my actions, i would do that for anyone. but now she acts as it never happened, i was never close to her so it doesnt hurt me. but all this high school drama they are promoting needs to stop. all these stupid videos about which bands they know, who the fuck cares?? when im at the gates before God hes not gonna sit there and say 'well jilian you can't come in because you didnt know those bands, and you werent a internet celeb' no he will (at least i hope) be proud for me giving all i have to others and lifting them up when i want to cut them down... thats life thats living... none of this fake, must be scene bullshit. I live my life and treat people as if they wont be there tomorrow. People i love dearly have been taken away from me, and some i didnt have the chance to tell them how amazing they were as a person. So now i try to see the good in everyone and everything, lifes to short to have worries. After all we must not forget, we aren't promised tomorrow. so live, speak and act the way you want to be remembered. I love you all!
holysmokescaitlin: 04/22/2008 6:09 AM
i vented in a semi similiar blog.
check that lady. love and miss.
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